Gregory: For many times already, I've asked Catherine why she is marrying me. The std reply ------> "You very cute mah". Desiring a more in-depth response, i recently bargained for some serious answers from her. Well it turned out that she found that I was the guy she could communicate best with (among all that she has met) and she is excited on our future together since along the way we found out that we really had the same goals in life. She also mentioned that i treated her very well and trusted that I would continue to do so in our married life together. That really quite sweet, actually... and perhaps good enough reasons to get married?
When the tables turned and the question was put back to me (i.e. why do I want to marry her), it really wasn't easy to give a sincere answer. Setting aside my ego and thus uncovering my true feelings for her... i guess the following would be the answers. 1) She is capable (perhaps more so than myself), sensible and I respect her as an equal companion; 2) I deeply felt that she is sincere in loving me in good times and in bad and I can trust her to do so in our married life together; 3)She's an optimist, gentle, easygoing. Her touch never fails to lighthen up my grumpy interior and draws me out from my cave (although sometimes i might not show it) and...4) okok... she's beautiful.. elegant..
I have put all these down in writing to steer keep our relationship compass pointing in the correct direction --- always.
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